Cousins

Yesterday Mikel was getting ready to go to the ASU football game with Kris. She came walking in with a beanie on and it was - hey - I've seen a picture like that before. Not her - but one that looked like her. So tell me what you think........

Mikel

and............Chalyn
Don't they look quite a bit alike - the face,the big blue eyes, hair and both are as skinny as can be (sigh - I remember when people USED to say that about me)! Why shouldn't they look alike you ask - after all they are cousins. Well, for those of you who don't know - Chalyn is the daughter of my older brother Bruce. Well, Bruce is my half-brother - we have different moms. That Pickett gene from my dad must be strong!
What is really interesting about this whole cousins thing with them - is they have such similar taste in clothes (and more things too). Chalyn and Mikel might not see each other for a year or so - but when they do, many times one of them will be wearing something that the other will say "Hey - I have one just like it!" Weird.

Crazy!

Crazy! That's me. I guess I should clarify it and say - I am very tired and exhausted and I deserve it. Today is Black Friday. And I was up and at the stores with Mikel and all of those other crazy people by 4 am. I haven't done that for quite a few years - and now I remember why. As many of you know - Doug is out in the hills hunting today with Jeremy (Matt joins them for Saturday). When Doug isn't home - I can't sleep very well. So not only did I get up just after 3 - I didn't go to sleep until after 1:30. And we didn't get home until 10 am. On the bright side - we did get everything we went out for. Lucky us! We hit Kohl's for the 4 am opening. Was out of there by 4:45 - and over to Best Buy just as they were letting everyone in. Got what we wanted there - and it was off to Target. Waited in line for only 10 minutes before we got in there. Paydirt again. Got all we wanted there too. We hit a few other stores - and finally home. Just in time to get Carson out of bed. (He had woken up earlier - but no one got him out of bed. poor little boy!). I did get an hour nap in. And it is only 1 am and I am still awake - updating my blog. Like I said - Crazy me!

By the way - I hope all of you enjoyed your Thanksgiving Day! We had our family thanksgiving day early - on the 23rd. It was great. We were all there - along with a few extra special guests. We had our family picture taken (thanks Jo - and Kris for being her assistant!). Aren't you all excited thinking about receiving one of those great pictures! Dinner was great - I love spending time around the dinner table with all my family. On Thursday we were all scattered. Doug, Jeremy, Jo and EmmaLee were up in the hills getting ready for the hunt and eating at Jo's grandma's house. I WAS going to go to St. George - but the weather report wasn't good so ended up staying home. I decided to take Kristi, Dani and Carson out to eat that day, but Matt and Xyonane invited us over to eat at her mother's house. It was great meeting her family and enjoying the wonderful meal they fixed. Mikel spent the day with Kris' family - Kendall with Marie's family, and Jason was at a friends house too. Isn't it great to have such great friends helping us out. Thanks to all of you in making Thanksgiving Day so special for all of us!

She's a Winner!

Friday - the 21st - Dani came home from school excited as she could be. She was jumping up and down with excitement! She had won a book at school - out of all the 4th, 5th and 6th grade students she was the only winner. Each student who entered who had to write 5 or more students on "The diary of an Edison Student". And she won! Great job Dani.

Here she is with the book she won

Our Time

Our time - mine and Doug's - alone for - oh- a couple of nights, and not much more! We wanted to do something for our 25th anniversary, but Doug didn't have time to get away from work other than one day. He went online and was able to get us 2 nights at a 4 1/2 star resort in Scottsdale. It was pretty nice! We weren't able to leave until after work on Tuesday (18th) - so didn't actually get to the resort until 8 or so. (I kept saying hotel - Doug kept reminding me it was a resort - not a hotel!) It wasn't "just" a room either - it was 740 sq feet of space. It had it's own living space - partial kitchen, a bedroom and a huge bathroom and a balcony. It was great. You know - it was almost as big as the apartment we lived in when we had 4 kids - and I got pregnant with our 5th (Jason). That apartment was only 900 sq feet!

Anyhow - here is the stairs leading up to our mini-space. Each building had 4 "rooms" for guests. It was nice - especially for this SAHM who isn't used to anything like this!

The resort was so spread out - the "rooms" that is - that they had these golf carts to help take guests to the building their "room" was in! There wasn't enough parking close to many of the "rooms".
Here is my wonderful guy sitting in the living space. We just relaxed the first night - watched some TV, played some games - just winding down.

This is our bedroom. There was also a TV in there and we could close off the room if we wanted to. But why would we need to? We had NO KIDS with us.

Doug thought I was pretty funny to take pictures of the way they had our hand-towels and soaps all set up. Hey - I'm a new kid on the block to these kind of places and thought it was pretty funny that they would take so much time to fix it up like this.
These was the area between the double sinks. More sinks and space than we have in our master bathroom at home!
Well, you get to see that picture again because I accidentally put it in and I don't know how to take it out without deleting all my work so far. I'm not the most blogging savy person!
Now - this is the picture I was going to show. This is the bathroom counter across from the sinks. Another fine decoration of towels and washclothes. This counter was by the big, whirlpool tub. (which is going to be in my next house - my dream bathroom). There was also a TV to watch while you would relax and soak in the tub.

Now - on Wednesday night Doug really surprised me by taking me here....

It was my once in a lifetime to die for steak dinner. Everything is ala carte - and I mean everything! We decided to "share" the porterhouse. Doug asked our waiter if it was really big enough to share. I'll say it was. It was "only" 40 - 44 oz of meat - with the bone of course. I have never had meat so tender and good that it would almost melt in your mouth! We did take some home for our lunch the next day! (good thing our "room" had a fridge!). The baked potatoe was also big enough to share. I don't know about you - but a 1 lb potatoe is too much for me - and I LOVE potatoes! We also shared our veggie (sauteed mushrooms) -but did get our own salads. Because it was our anniversary - the dessert was on the house! I don't think I have ever had a meal so good! Doug really treated me like a queen that night!

It was a very interesting experience. The table next to us must have taken nearly 1/2 an hour discussing the wine list with the waiter, and trying out a couple of bottles of wine. Even after the waiter left the 3 men kept discussing wines - and one of them even called someone on the phone to talk about them. The were very serious about their wines. It was soooo beyond me!

One very interesting thing happened before we even went into the restuarant. We had pulled into our parking spot - and since we were a little early we were sitting there talking. In the parking spaces just in front of us - one car pulled in - then another car. A girl got out of her car (she was driving) and went over to the other car. She spoke to someone thru the passent front window - then climbed into the back seat. She was only in there for barely a minute or two - when she got out with something and climbed back into her car. The other car pulled out and left - and then she did. Hmmm- makes you wonder doesn't it!

It was great to spend just the one full day with Doug. We both loved it! We did a little shopping, went to a movie, relaxed and then went to dinner. It just ended all too soon! We had to be out of bed the next morning just after 6 am to get ready to leave because Doug had to be back to work by 8:30 for board meeting. Oh well, I'll take what I can get!

Whose Kid is This?

.,Okay - where did my sweet, mischevious, happy little boy go? Now I have a stubborn, uncooperative, tantrum throwing boy. He looks the same - but this week - there is just a whole different attittude.

I can't believe he hit those "terrible two's" early - but that is exactly what it is. I sure hope he gets out of this stage early too!........................and then there is the big "MINE" - his favorite new word. Everything he sees or wants is "MINE"! Running a close second is "NO". He does say other words, which we can understand most of the time - but those are the two big ones we hear all of the time. Sigh...................this too shall pass soon (I hope).

Then and Now!

Twenty-five years - 25 years of love, laughter, happiness, and joy. And even 30 years of friendship! Here we are - one of the pictures from our engagement session. Don't we look young (and skinny - very skinny!) Doug thought he looked so young he grew a moustache for our wedding day on November 19, 1983.

That was then - this is now (or at least 1 year ago!)
You can hardly tell I am the same person - but Doug sure looks great!

See what love does - a family that means the world to us!

Us with our 8 wonderful, great kids!

And here we are - with the picture with our beautiful daughter-in-law and granddaughter.

Our family is still growing! And we are all one year older than last year's picture!

I have been so blessed these many years. Doug is not only my husband - he's my best friend. There was an article in the paper the other day of a study the said: Romantic love lasts in some long-term relationships. They studied some couples that have been married for over 21 years. They said that the honeymoon doesn't have to be over just because you've been together for years. Some new brain scans of these people who say there are still in love after decades of marriage are the same of those who have just fallen in love. They found that when these couples saw photos of their spouse, their brains reacted. That would be me. Doug has kept me falling in love with him - over and over again. He treats me like a queen. It doesn't matter if we were as poor as can be, or had money in our bank account - his actions always were one of love - honor - and respect. My heart always has a little jump when he walks into a room - just as it did 25 years ago. I love you Doug! Thanks for 25 (even 30) years. I couldn't have asked for more!

I could go on - and on - about our years together - but I won't (which I am sure you are thankful in not having to read). Just know I am looking forward to 25 more years - 50 more years -eternity with him!

Dani's Birthday - continues

Wouldn't it be nice to celebrate your birthday all week long? Well - that is just what Dani did! She had her family party on the 9th - a small celebration on her actual birthday - the 12th - and her friends party on the 16th. Lucky girl! She decided to go with the backwards party theme. It was a lot of fun! The invitations were all written backwards - the kids had to put them up to the mirror to read them! Everyone dressed with their clothes backwards. When they were greeted at the door - the had to walk backwards into the house. We then had a "backwards" fashion show. I wish I would have gotten pictures - but all I did was the video.

We then moved on in our backwards party - starting with - of course - opening presents, then had dessert, then our main dish - and on to the games!

Here are a couple of Dani's friends showing their clothes (and medals they got in the relays!)

The "backwards view"
Opening her presents! Like her bun in the hair - of course in the front!
Dani made out like a bandit this birthday. You already read about all the stuff she got from the family. She has some really nice friends too!

Here they all are - waiting for their cake and ice cream. Notice the girl on the front right corner. She went all out - her backwards ponytail, headband on the back - and even wore her tennis shoes on the wrong feet. Of course Carson had to be involved in the whole thing too.

Dani with her decorated cupcakes and crazy candles!

She just had a difficult time blowing out 9 candles!

I can't believe my little Dani is 9 years old. Dani is so special to our family. She is very loving - always wanting to help and giving everyone hugs. She has the cutest smile and the prettiest brown eyes. Her smile just lights up my day. Our family was very blessed the day she came into our life. I love you Dani! You are my most favorite 9 year old daughter!